I have heard about some single moms who find it very difficult to cope with parenting single-handedly. The traumatic experience they went through in their past relationship kept hunting them like a nightmare every time.
It could probably be that the single mom had been emotionally or physically abused by someone so dear to her heart. And as a result of this trauma, you find yourself losing self-control and transferring your aggression over your children just by reason of the past you can’t let go. You can’t help it but you subconsciously find yourself hurting so deep and doing what you never wished to do to yourself and to your children. You keep believing that you are helpless and there is nothing you can do about it.
Are you a single mom finding it so hard to have a closure with your past but an unpleasant experience? Have you any idea of how you will be emotionally abusing your children? Do you realise that each time you are grieving over the past is only affecting your children even the more?
Dear single mom, I know it’s not easy to get over the ugly situation that leaves you heartbroken all the time. But what will you profit from the anger, sudden hatred and bitterness you transferred on your children?
I once had a single mom who felt what you are feeling right now. Her fear of the past and insecurity left her brooding overtime. Sadly, enough, I lost her because she refused to let go of her broken relationship with my dad who is miles away from my home country. I had tried everything possible from praying for my mom and offering word of advice that I thought would have healed her broken spirit but to no avail.
How about you who is in a situation like hers? Do you choose to succumb to your fate and watch yourself dying gradually? Don’t you think there is a brighter future right in front of you; your children are one of your future. Think about it.You’ve been through enough and can’t continue to live with the pains which may in turn lead to a serious health issue. Just LET IT GO! Click To Tweet
I know you never wished to be a single parent, handling all the responsibility alone. But I have one word of encouragement for you: LET IT GO and move on with your life! Your problem is not bigger than your dreams. There are better things to do with your life. Try to Let IT GO.
You’ve been through enough and can’t continue to live with the pains which may in turn lead to a serious health issue. Just LET IT GO!
Think about your future and that of your children’s and how they will always look up to you for your supportive care in one way or the other.
Don’t let the past weigh you down so much that you begin to think your life depend on it. It will do you no good but more harm instead.
It is about time to breakout from that long standing pains.
It is about time to breakout from that bondage.
It is about time to breakout from the spirit of unforgiveness that have paved way in your heart for so long.
Even though you still find any reason why it is not possible to admit the aforesaid truth, take it first to God in prayer. Ask Him for help and He will heal and strengthen you. He will also mend your broken spirit. Sooner in no time, you will one day wake up to realise that you shouldn’t have allowed yourself to be overwhelmed by the unpleasant experience.
Yes! You can do it!
Let it go….